May 13th, 2007.
Mother's Day and we are at our farthest point away from family. But phone calls can be made, and words exchanged, and laughter and teasing can cross several time zones, with or without the aid of a slap on the butt or a kiss on the cheek. Moms, we love you!!! Thanks for supporting your crazy children!
There is this thing among musicians. Well, at least among Ji and I. That thing is that you always play a different show than the audience feels. You could feel like you played like crap and people will say, "Wow man, that was the best version of that tune
ever." Or, you could play what you feel to be within the realm of a fourth dimension - everything seems so uncanny and so gifted, it is as if you really aren't playing, some other joyous creature has control of the reigns. This is usually this scenario where people didn't hear because the sound was bad, the margarita machine kept going, or there were only two people in the bar.
Last night, the latter was true. We played our best show of the entire trip thus far, for four people. And damn, if it wasn't good! I really don't mind saying so. Ji and I were simply beaming. We stood back , got out of the way of the music, and had us some real fun. And then we took a break, and went out to meet David the architect and another man, named Mark, I believe. We spent more time with David, because it turns out that he knows friends of Unity and Cristela's, and we almost met him at this crazy Luau the night before.
Okay. Sidetrip. The Luau.
Here is where the rock star lifestyle blazes a glorious, if brief, trail in our trip. Maybe it was the influence of Texas. Or maybe it was the leis we were all wearing. Or maybe it was the deliciously deceptive, gigantic and never-ending washtub of Everclear Hawaiin punch. But somehow Ji and I both tried our hand
several times at hula hooping, much to my dismay the next morning. Did you know that vigorous hula-hooping produces sensations akin to having your ribs broken? And somehow I agreed to compete in a limbo contest with a bunch of rubber gumby women, miraculously making my way to the last rung before the winner took all. In my hatha yoga way, I kept holding the back bend. It was weird, I just would slowly go under the pole, then it was like I would get stuck there, an invisible string attached from my sternum to the green wooden rod. Then I would walk under, and onto a lower setting. That is eventually how I lost. I was suspended under the rod, caught in a quiet moment of no movement, then as a tried to make an exit, my chest raised and I bumped the pole.
Unable to catch a free drum, Ji stood on a platform and dutifully clapped his woman onto a would-be victory. Only this wasn't like the twister contest honey, I was bound to lose. Because get this: the winner, a noticeably tall and stunning beauty, Melissa, actually
took off a pair of four-inch heels to compete in the final rung. Shit, man. None of us even saw it coming. I guess it was dark, and there were drums. We were all in bare feet, and there she goes, taking off her damn heels! Dude! No sir, I can't compete with that, not even if I had shucked "Car Body" completely. You gotta give it up to a girl like that.
Okay, back to Ruta Maya. Here is a pic taken just after setting up...what a beautiful space!

Kudos to the fine barista, Natalia. We were just playing for tips, and I hadn't realized that no food or drink besides coffee come with the gig. So when I ordered a glass of wine and realized I had to pay, I chose to give Luna a drink over taking one for myself. But during the break, Natalia enjoyed the music so much, she just bought the drink for me. If I were the owner of that establishment, I would give her an Employee of the Month award or something. She really made us feel like champs on a quiet Sunday night with no crowd. Our next two listeners actually called to check if we were still playing and caught the last three songs. Man, it was so fun, it didn't matter if there were two or two hundred people that night.
Before Ji and I left to go on this tour, we wrote out a list of our intentions and posted them on our fridge. Among those intentions, we wanted to make connections with new people in such a way that they would want to hear us play music again. And that is just what happened. These are the very real successes. And this night, I was proud to sit next to Tanzer and just do what we do best. Thank you for listening.